The Gift

There’s a story behind the words below. One morning while downloading solo guitar music, I happened upon the hymn “O My Father”, played beautifully by guitarist- Ryan Tilby. The melody was sweet and peaceful, and I played it on repeat more than I’m willing to admit. (Ok, more than seventy times.) Wanting to do more than hum along, I decided to search for the lyrics so I could sing along in praise. As it turns out the song is a Mormon hymn and some of the lyrics are in contradiction to my Christian faith. So I continued to hum.

Weeks later I was slicing strawberries in my kitchen, the hymn playing in the background. Words began spilling into my mind. I quickly wiped my hands, wrote them down and restarted the song. Back to the berries. More words. Stop, write, rewind. Back to the berries. Repeat again and again. Tears blurred my eyes. In the end, words fit the song perfectly for Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

I do not write songs. And I do not write poetry. But that day as I read the finished words, I realized this song was my story. The gift that I wanted to sing to my God, became His gift to me as the Holy Spirit spoke to my heart.                                                                                Funny how that works:)

O loving Father                                                                                                                          Creator and King,                                                                                                                                   Your wonders surround me,                                                                                                         Your glories they sing.

  My heart wants to join in                                                                                                                But I am held back.                                                                                                                          My sin keeps me silent,                                                                                                                    My soul is but black.

 My Father says, “Child,                                                                                                                     My heart yearns for you.                                                                                                                 My love’s for the taking,                                                                                                                   I’ll carry you through.”                                                                                                                       

“I gave you my Son                                                                                                                             To make your heart clean,                                                                                                                 No longer apart,                                                                                                                            Child, come to me.”

 O, my sweet, sweet Jesus,                                                                                                                   Purest of love.                                                                                                                                     You came to us bringing                                                                                                               Your Father’s deep love.

  You open your arms and                                                                                                              With mercy and grace                                                                                                                  Invite me,  “Come.”                                                                                                                                I leave my disgrace.

  I touch your hand, and                                                                                                                          I am made clean.                                                                                                                                    I lift my eyes, and                                                                                                                          Your face I see.

 A rushing of tears,                                                                                                                                 A blanket of peace,                                                                                                                       Softly You call,                                                                                                                            “Child, come to me.”

  O, Holy Spirit                                                                                                                                Breathe in me fire                                                                                                                        That makes my heart one                                                                                                            With His desire.

  Speak to my soul now                                                                                                                Words He would say,                                                                                                                      And make my heart burn                                                                                                                For His will, I pray.

  O, move my heart                                                                                                                                To His perfect love.                                                                                                                              Fill me overflowing,                                                                                                                Mercies pour from above.

  Make me His hands.                                                                                                                          Make me His feet.                                                                                                                     Through me He pleads,                                                                                                            “Child, come to me.”

  Lord, make me your hands.                                                                                                          Lord, make me your feet.                                                                                                                  Plead through me,                                                                                                                       “Child! Child come to me!”

 

 

 

Can You Feel the Love?

Image result for heartCried out in stadiums, “Can you feel the love?” is more worthy of an exclamation point than a question mark. In whispered conversations it’s grumbled with deep sarcasm and a roll of the eyes. Forget the question mark. Finish it with a period.

That same question rises earnestly from deep inside me as I look into the eyes of my grandchildren. Silently I ask, “Can you feel the love? Can you see in my eyes how much I love you? CAN – YOU – FEEL – THE – LOVE!”. My throat clenches and I want to cry.

I love conversations with my older grands. They casually tell me about their lives         and what their interests are at the moment. School. Friends. What’s fair and unfair.  Likes and dislikes. Parents. (I smile.) How my phone works – yep. But then I find myself lost in THEM. “Remember this face,” I think,  “this smile, in this moment at this age. Their eyes – can they see my love pouring out for them?” I reel it in, bringing myself back to our conversation, feeling like I’ve just entered into it from another room.

With the younger grands I’m free to be bold. “Come here for just a sec! Let me see those eyes!” I cup their face in my hands, willing them to peer deep. They smile at me, expectantly, quizzically. Are they able to see in my eyes the wonderful hurt that comes from a love that I can’t explain? Does that piercing love, when it goes out from me, ache in them when it’s received?

God questions me, “Can you feel the love? Can you see in my Word how much I love you? Search deeply, receive, and live!”

Jesus was pierced for my sin because of His love for me. Now I ache with a deep love for Him. Will my grandchildren ever understand the depth of my love that I have for them?  They may some day when they are grandparents. In the meantime I will continue to love them without measure. Because that is how my God loves me.

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!  1John 3:1

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Shoes in the Sky

I don’t remember much about Sunday School and church, but we went. When five years old, I once had a difficult day with my brother. Crying, I ran outside to swing and started pumping. I vividly remember pressing my shoes to the sky, thinking, “I’m going to swing  HIGH, so I can get close to Jesus.” Why did I think that?

Fast forward to my sophomore year in high school. I fell quickly for the star of the football and basketball teams. We were the couple. By our senior year, he was pressuring for a more intimate, physical relationship. As we sat in the car one night, I remember telling him, “I don’t know why I feel this way, but I think I’m supposed to wait until after marriage.” Why did I feel that?

At age 20, we married. I watched as he was unfaithful in our marriage, thoughtless toward me, and selfish in his “all-about-me” lifestyle”. I silently yearned to make a home for a loving husband and children. We divorced after four years. I remember weeping, crying out to God, “Why is this happening to me? I’m a nice person!” But I had been unfaithful too. Not in my marriage, but to my God. I had been thoughtless, not toward my husband but to my Lord. I had been selfish in my “all-about-me” lifestyle, not in my marriage but to the One who gave His life for me – Jesus Christ. It would be years before I realized this.

Looking for a new home, I drove into a little town in Wisconsin. I told my sister, “This is where I’m supposed to be.” She asked me how I could know – it was dark! I couldn’t answer then – I just knew.

I can answer now. God.

I was broken, disillusioned, haggard, hardened. But God gently led me here, where I met and fell in love with the kindest young man I had ever known in my life. A patient young man. A balm to my soul. He mirrored Christ to me.

We have been married for 41 years and blessed with five wonderful children.

What have I learned? God is very real. He loves. He pursues. He Heals. He blesses. He saves. He wanted more than my Sundays. He wanted a relationship. That day on the swing as a child, seeing my shoes in the sky? Now I know. He wanted ME.

 

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      “He reached down from heaven and rescued me; He drew me out of deep waters.                    He led me to a place of safety; He rescued me because He delights in me.”                                 Psalm 18:16,19